Update:
I now have a very detailed step-by-step tutorial for setting up a proper Ruby development environment on a Mac, including a Homebrew troubleshooting section with the most common issues people run into.
Although my step-by-step tutorial is guaranteed to work, I also have a script that will save you a lot of time.
My tutorial uses a Ruby manager to install Ruby (chruby specifically) because that’s the only way I recommend that you install Ruby. To learn more, read my guide that explains the various ways you can install Ruby gems on a Mac.
You are correct that macOS won’t let you change anything with the Ruby version that comes installed with your Mac. However, it’s possible to install gems like bundler using a separate version of Ruby that doesn’t interfere with the one provided by Apple.
Using sudo to install gems, or changing permissions of system files and directories is strongly discouraged, even if you know what you are doing. Can we please stop providing this bad advice? I wrote a detailed article that shows why you should never use sudo to install gems.
The solution involves two main steps:
Install a separate version of Ruby that does not interfere with the one that came with your Mac.
Update your PATH such that the location of the new Ruby version is first in the PATH. Some tools do this automatically for you. If you’re not familiar with the PATH and how it works, it’s one of the basics that you should learn, and you’ll understand why you sometimes get “command not found” errors and how to fix them.
There are several ways to install Ruby on a Mac. The best way that I recommend, and that I wish was more prevalent in the various installation instructions out there, is to use an automated script (like the one I wrote and linked to above) that will set up a proper Ruby environment for you. This drastically reduces the chances of running into an error due to inadequate instructions that make the user do a bunch of stuff manually and leaving it up to them to figure out all the necessary steps.
The other route you can take is to spend extra time doing everything manually and hoping for the best. First, you will want to install Homebrew, which installs the prerequisite command line tools, and makes it easy to install other necessary tools.
Then, the two easiest ways to install a separate version of Ruby are:
If you would like the flexibility of easily switching between many Ruby versions [RECOMMENDED]
Choose one of these four options:
chruby and ruby-install – my personal recommendations and the ones that are automatically installed by my script. These can be installed with Homebrew:
brew install chruby ruby-install
rbenv – can be installed with Homebrew
RVM
asdf
If you chose chruby and ruby-install, you can then install the latest Ruby like this:
ruby-install ruby
Once you’ve installed everything and configured your .zshrc or .bash_profile according to the instructions from the tools above, quit and restart Terminal, then switch to the version of Ruby that you want. In the case of chruby, it would be something like this:
chruby 3.0.1
Whether you need to configure .zshrc or .bash_profile depends on which shell you are using.
If you know for sure you don’t need more than one version of Ruby at the same time (besides the one that came with macOS)
Install ruby with Homebrew:
brew install ruby
Then update your PATH by running this command:
echo ‘export PATH=”/usr/local/opt/ruby/bin:/usr/local/lib/ruby/gems/2.7.0/bin:$PATH”‘ >> ~/.zshrc
The 2.7.0 in the command above assumes Homebrew installed a Ruby version that starts with 2.7. If you’re using a different version (which you can check with ruby -v), replace 2.7 with the first two digits of your Ruby version.
Then “refresh” your shell for these changes to take effect:
source ~/.zshrc
Or you can open a new terminal tab, or quit and restart Terminal.
Replace .zshrc with .bash_profile if you are using Bash. If you’re not sure, read my guide to find out which shell you are using.
To check that you’re now using the non-system version of Ruby, you can run the following commands:
which ruby
It should be something other than /usr/bin/ruby
ruby -v
It should be something other than 2.6.3 if you’re on macOS Catalina. As of today, 3.0.1 is the latest Ruby version.
Once you have this new version of Ruby installed, you can now install bundler (or any other gem):
gem install bundler
If you don’t want to run sudo then install ruby using homebrew
brew install ruby
export GEM_HOME=”$HOME/.gem”
gem install rails
You may want to add export GEM_HOME=”$HOME/.gem” to your ~/.bash_profile or .zshrc if you’re using zsh
Note: RubyGems keeps old versions of gems, so feel free to do some cleaning after updating:
gem cleanup